Be True To Who You Are

The Spirit has many more outlets and expressions that many people will admit, or even have the courage to allow within themselves. They think (unconsciously) they have to stay put where they are and be content with that, many times because they have invested a lot of money, time or effort into something.

They learn how to cope with life instead of actually living it. They make the illusion more livable by maybe buying more stuff, constantly be renovating their houses, or get yet another cute little puppy that will distract them from the feeling and suspicion that there must be more to life than this, surely there must be, but they are afraid of looking more closely into it, because if they do, it will require them to change and egos like things to stay as they are, they like familiarity and routine – while at the same time they despise it secretly.

And thus they look for things/the world/other people to change, but never to themselves to actually be and live the change they crave, always looking for things that can distract them from looking more deeply into life.

Many seem to be so hung up on rules about how to be, they put themselves (and others) in boxes; they do all they can to look good and not lose face trying to be who they think others think they should be; it really limits people to live out who they really are, which is so much more than they give themselves credit for.

Allow yourself to change and evolve.

Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got. ~Janis Joplin

Mercury goes retro tomorrow, that’s a great time to take a re-evaluation of life and if you’re feeling off path, to bounce back into alignment again. Not that we are ever really out of it as all things happen for a reason, but you know what I mean. It’s always a good idea to take some alone-time to contemplate and inquire within.

Listening attentively and sincerely to what our hearts are telling us in every moment allows decision and action to be made in the same instant.

It’s when we go to the mind for a second opinion that we get lost and confused.

And so what if you feel pulled in a million different directions! Why not accept that you are and see it as a possibility for expansion and growth instead of rigidly trying to hold on to the old.

Maybe it’s time to move on, have you considered that? It might be a blessing in disguise that you feel torn between this or that. Why not look into both and more?

Just sit with it for a while and stay open to the possibilities that something new might be brewing. Offer no resistance. It’s the stubborn mind that resists that creates suffering. How about just being with what is for a moment?

It is very easy to conform to what your society or your parents and teachers tell you. That is a safe and easy way of existing; but that is not living. To live is to find out for yourself what is true. ~Jiddu Krishnamurti

To be true to who you are is to be true to Truth. And Truth with a capital T cannot be taught by anyone, it can’t even be described in words! It has to be discovered and realized in every individual for themselves and there comes a time where all that is left is to just sit quietly and find out for yourself what that Truth is.

There’s nothing religious about it, nothing that needs to be in a certain “spiritual way”, and you can even hold all God-concepts out of it altogether, it has nothing to do with that whatsoever. It simply means to be true to yourself, knowing that what you are would never harm itself in any way; love would never do that to itself, and then act from that space of knowing.

Do what you feel in your heart to be right, for you’ll be criticized anyway. You’ll be damned if you do and damned if you don’t. ~Eleanor Roosevelt

Screw concepts and stereotyping! Be who you are. Period. Let go of the fear of what other people might think.

Yes, there will be opposition from the world and other people. There will always be some people that don’t like you and what you stand for, and there will be those who love you for it. Neither really matters.

What matters is that this moment is all there is and how you chose to bring yourself to it is what determines the quality of your life and what your contribution to it is. As long as you pretend you cheat yourself and the life energy that you are.

In essence you go against life; you turn your back on God, when all you have to do is to be who you are and stay true to that and you’re back in alignment with the power that created you in the first place, just the way you are.

And it’s not about becoming a better version of yourself (nothing needs to be added to who you are), it’s about having the courage to stop hiding, because you already know who and what you are.

I was once afraid of people saying, “Who does she think she is?” Now I have the courage to stand and say, “This is who I am.” ~Oprah Winfrey

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It’s easy to follow the crowd, to do what others do and not even consider questioning anything.

To follow your own inner pull towards your own divinity and truth will at times be very challenging, but oh so worth it. No way one can turn back when we have even seen and tasted a tiny bit of the kingdom within.

“… as long as someone is only into spirituality in order to feel good or better, the person will not be able to go into deep self-inquiry and realization.

It will always be on a surface level and it usually involves becoming someone better in the future (that doesn’t exist) and it’s usually all about avoiding the uncomfortable and it usually holds an invisible carrot in front of you with promises of constant never-ending blissful states of mind – all you need to do is to become someone you’re not first (because you are not enough yet, says the ego)…” :

Thank you, Maria!

I couldn’t be more grateful to have Maria in my life. Her guidance and energy is profound!

– Robert, CA, USA

Could not more highly recommend

Maria is the real deal. You will sense it the moment you lay eyes on her. She offered much, much more than I’ve derived from other teachers; highly specific and personal recommendations. It is as though I got a crash graduate course from spirit. Could not more highly recommend!

Catherine Rondeau, Westport, Connecticut, USA

The feeling of peace and freedom is priceless

With only that one session and the healing she carried out, I’ve been without grudges, feelings of being hurt or anything on those lines. This feeling of peace and freedom is priceless. Maria is beyond amazing. Had I not experienced it myself, I would probably not believe it. I recommend anyone who is trying hard to be truly free and really start walking down the path of self fulfillment and happiness to book a session with her.

Maria helped me recreate my life

Maria is amazing. She is a gift to this world with an incredible intuitive ability. She has helped me to refocus my energy and recreate my life.

C. Málaga, Spain

You have really made a difference in how my mind works

I don’t know if I make sense, but all I can say is that I feel blissful. And I can’t thank you enough for that. I don’t know exactly how you managed this, but you have really made a difference in how my mind works.

– Silvia, Marbella, Spain

It was more than I could ever hoped for or expected

My experience with Maria was more than I could ever hoped for or expected. I had such a positive experience working with her. I feel like a huge weight have been lifted and I have so much more perspective on what I have been struggling with. She cleared up my energy and I feel more myself, more at peace and all around better mentally and emotionally since my sessions with her.

Miriam, Espoo, Finland

Can’t recommend her enough!

Working with Maria was one of the best investments I ever made in myself. I’ve seen immediate shifts in my energy as well as learned to work with my own energy and mind. It has been one of the single most transformational experiences of my life. Can’t recommend her enough!

– Chris, USA

Something happened within me that I cannot explain

After our session, something happened within me that I cannot explain nor would it even make sense to anyone. There was a part of me that felt my being been taken over by a real peacefulness that I’ve never encountered before. Sounds odd but it’s the truth.

– A.

Connecting with you is magical

Maria THANK YOU. Sometimes just by connecting with you even briefly gives me instant clarity, it’s really magical, thank you so much. I trust your guidance so much, I’m just so grateful!

My life has changed dramatically

Since plugging in to your words of wisdom my life has changed dramatically. You pointed me in the right direction and that gave me courage to continue moving through whatever process I may find myself in and the ability to take refuge in the truth within me.

I cannot believe what you were able to achieve in one session

I don’t really know where to start. I find myself at a loss for words. All I can say to you is Thank You. This was unlike any healing session that I have ever been in and I say that from the bottom of my skeptical, over analytical heart who had literally tried everything one could think of. I cannot recommend you enough to other people, you are a gift. I also cannot believe what you were able to achieve in one session, to me it is groundbreaking. Thank you!!!

Rosie Bebawi, Marbella, Spain

My life has radically changed for the better

I finally know my worth. I feel so different now, I feel lighter, happier and more self confident and it’s easy to let go of people and situations that don’t serve me. I treasure the time I spend talking with Maria and look forward to my sessions with her. There has been big changes in my life, synchronicities showing up like magic and I’m constantly blown away at the business and opportunities that I’m attracting. My life has radically changed for the better after I met Maria.

— Robin, New York, USA

I needed help in getting my life back

From the first sentence you spoke directly related to what I was going through, I felt so uplifted and light. It still blows me away when I think about it now! Never once did I feel judged, or uncomfortable in any way. I feel like this heavy weight of negativity has fallen away from me and I couldn’t get those awful feelings back if I tried. I can’t stress enough what a gift it is to be able to work with somebody like Maria. Talk about amazing grace!

A calm came over me

I could feel the tension leaving my body and a calm came over me by just being in her presence. Everything flows so naturally with her and my life is more beautiful and I feel at peace knowing I have her by my side. I feel blessed to have her in my life.

Cecilia, Stockholm, Sweden

I’ve never had a conversation like that before

I just wanted to say thank you so much again for our session yesterday, I’ve never had a conversation like that before and it was truly amazing. I could feel weight lifted as we were talking and for the first time my mind did not try to make sense of things, it was all truly felt in the heart space.

Val, Melbourne, Australia

Her unique ability to read your state helped me to breakthrough

Maria’s intuitive abilities have been instrumental to the personal growth I’ve experienced as a result of working together. I’ve had HUGE shifts in my beliefs. Her undivided attention, presence and unique ability to read your state helped me to breakthrough and release old patterns and replace them with new self-empowering practices that have truly shifted my life. I would highly recommend Maria to anyone. I am forever changed and forever grateful!

Joanna, USA

I have never felt more aligned to my true self

Maria’s awareness of energies and the conditions of the mind are truly impressive. She knows exactly what’s going on. She is so attuned to other peoples’ energy that she just knows where you’re at. After working with her I have never felt more alive and aligned to my true self.

Andrew B, San Diego, CA, USA

I had a complete turnaround to my situation

The distance healing was amazing. I had a complete turnaround to my situation so many thanks for helping me transform something I had lost hope about. It’s a miracle and the outcome could not have turned out better! If you want to see a real shift not just psychological but spiritual shift, then Maria is the lady to see. I am so glad I found you!

– Sophie P

I certainly did not expect this

I certainly did not expect this, l have had periods of such intense joy and bliss, Love with an underlying peace that’s been consistent. l don’t understand it intellectually but my heart see’s it clearly. It’s been wonderful, I feel a true sense of connection and being rooted with in and there is just an openness and trust, and a sense of wonder and amazement. I am truly grateful, Thank you. Sincerely.

Mark Neely, Allentown, Pennsylvania, USA

You are truly a gift to us all!

I can’t even begin to express how much I have gained internally after my session with you. You have been an instrument of peace in my life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

– Owen, USA

 I am so glad that I reached out to you

Maria, you are truly godsend. I cannot describe how happy I am. I have no idea what you did and how you did, but I am truly grateful to you. My words in this email cannot thank you enough. Today is the first day that I woke up feeling as if I am ready to take on the world. I am so glad that I reached out to you. I am truly grateful to you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family!


The whole session felt as if it was operating on another level

If you can trust one thing in your life right now, trust Maria. You can trust her with your heart and soul. It’s hard to explain, the whole session felt as if it was operating on another level. I’ve never had that kind of experience before. It just felt so much bigger than I anticipated. I can tell you with absolute honesty and conviction that having a session with Maria is life-changing!

– Lisa, USA

I experienced a PROFOUND shift 

I can’t put into words how much you have helped me. I couldn’t have kept it all together had I not experienced a PROFOUND shift during and after my session with you.

More transformational than any other thing that I’ve tried

I highly recommend Maria! I don’t even recognize the person who started working with her a few months ago. Maria clearly sees what is blocking, stopping or limiting you. Working with her has been more transformational than any other thing that I’ve tried. There have been profound shifts in the way I see myself and the world, so many shifts in my energy and life. I find myself so much lighter and freer. Thank you Maria!

Britt, Marbella, Spain

Maria is leading people to a new way of being

Maria is changing the world by her presence. She’s leading people to a new way of being. She’s rare because she’s able to see where you are at in your journey and can show you the way forward. I feel so incredibly grateful that she has been a companion during this time of change. If you feel drawn to connect with Maria I encourage you to move forward with confidence.

– Carolyn W. Asheville, NC, USA

Profound shift

I can’t put into words how much you have helped me. I couldn’t have kept it all together had I not experienced a PROFOUND shift during and after my session with you.

I was taken over by a peacefulness

After our session, something happened within me that I cannot explain nor would it even make sense to anyone. There was a part of me that felt my being been taken over by a real peacefulness that I’ve never encountered before. Sounds odd but it’s the truth.

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