The More Light, The More The Ego Resists

Ego resistance means you’re on to something good!

When we become more and more clear and the Light within starts to shine brighter and brighter, there’s other forces too that start to come alive even stronger and that is the resistance from the ego that doesn’t appreciate the transformation and change.

All this journey is about is to ultimately surrender to Truth  – and that process will show us who we are not, and that in turn means that the ego will loose it’s power and significance in our being.

So it will resist. And many times very powerfully so.

Lots of stuff will come up, and lots of stuff will be shone light on for you to look closer at.

Not to fix or heal; it’s a shedding process.

It’s like Truth has a torch and sheds light on everything that is not in alignment with it.

Truth will shine it’s light on many things;

  • “That behavior,.. nah, not cool anymore, have to stop doing that”
  • “Hm, yeah, gotta let go of that friend, he/she’s not in alignment with you anymore, too toxic”
  • “Yeah, about that… gotta let go of that too, and that..”

We become more aware about how we conduct ourselves, not in a phony way as if we’re trying to be somebody, but in a way that immediately lets us know if we are not being true to ourselves or if we are compromising our integrity.

We are informed even stronger the more clear we get, it becomes very obvious to us when we are not being true to Truth. 

It just feels wrong, or “off”, and we become keenly aware of that so we get back in touch with ourselves again and thus act more authentically and with greater confidence, and that confidence doesn’t come from the ego, it comes from a deeper place of Truth.

That’s how intuition becomes stronger and the more we trust it and go with it, the clearer life becomes. 

De-cluttereted from that which is not true.

It’s a process of relinquishing and letting go so that the Light can shine bright again.

Because the Light is who we really are.


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“… In the process of spiritual awakening the whole construct of life is undergoing a transformation, and that includes the relationships we have as well…”: Feeling Disconnected From Others Because You Chose a Spiritual Path


“… No effort needed to be who we are!

We don’t need intention. To act from intention implies effort, as if you have to decide beforehand to be in a certain way that will benefit humanity at large.

When we are naturally ourselves the intention is not needed, because it is already inherent in Life itself, and Life wouldn’t intentionally hurt itself. Intention is mind-made, a technique for the ego to learn how to behave in appropriate ways.

The seed doesn’t have to ‘intend’ to grow into a flower, it just does, naturally.

Sure, some may get their egos bruised by someones authentic beingness but then again, others may simply accept us as we are too, and actually appreciate who we are even if they don’t always agree with us…”:  Our People Pleasing Society


“… Yes, there are people on the spiritual path that thinks that if they ‘give up their desires’ they will attain enlightenment.

But that’s not how it works at all. It doesn’t matter if you are the worlds most enlightened person; you will still have preferences…”: Preferences, likes and dis-likes are not the same as desires [Spiritual Misconceptions]


“… Being dedicated to Truth means to embrace everything, not only the nice and comfortable parts of life (that’s really how the ego rolls, it’s always looking for a way out while our true nature embraces everything, that’s what true and mature spirituality is, it’s not about “feeling better”, but to sincerely allow yourself to experience everything); it means literally everything, and that includes the willingness to be alone.

It includes the willingness to look very closely at everything that is not true in our lives and have that removed either by our own choice, or by us kicking and screaming our way through it by the feeling of victim-hood. But it will be removed, trust me on that one.

If you have a sincere wish to know the Truth and nothing but, it will be known to you what you need to let go of…”: You Have To Be Willing To Be Alone (Dedicated to Truth)


“… the differences between the ego and spirit, because when we know who and what we are not and are sincere about those mind-made constructions within ourselves, the true nature of our beingness can come forth and let itself be known with no use of words or intellectual understanding…”: Spiritual Awakening and Knowing Who We Are Not


“… To try to make ourselves to be a person with no wants, thinking it’s spiritual and noble somehow, that would be a want too. Then we would define ourselves to be ‘a person who don’t have any wants’ (a.k.a. a spiritualized ego that thinks it will get what it want if it pretends to not have any wants..)”: Wanting To Not Want Is a Want Too


“… You don’t have to make a deal with God (as if you could:-) by thinking that if you’re this kind and sweet spiritual person then you will be favored by God and nothing bad will happen (believing that “If I’m good, then I’ll only ‘attract’ good things, people and situations”) and other people will look at you as being this loving and caring person, this compassionate godly person who never ‘harms’ others by having own opinions, who always smiles and behaves in ways that are comfortable to the ego. That’s just pure nonsense…”: Lets talk about: | Discernment | Judgmental | Acceptance | What saying Yes to all means | Facts |


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