Believe you can and you will

Grow, expand, create! (Remember who you are)

Who doesn’t want to make life even more enjoyable and enriching, both for yourself as well as others?

Most people want this, it’s inherent in our nature to want to grow and discover, expand and enjoy more, but even though this is inherent in us, most people never grow beyond their current level of consciousness and awareness.

We see what’s in our radar, or frequency, and in order to see more we have to work on overcoming ourselves.

For any person who’s into transformation and personal development, growing and evolving, we are always in a process of outgrowing ourselves.

There’s always gonna be the next level of growth, and that’s what makes life exciting!

And for every next level, there’s a new program to be installed, which is a new and wider, more expansive version of ourselves.

You are unconditioned consciousness, that is what you are, what we all are, but you have to know this in order to be able to shed the old program more easily; the current programmed Self that you (or, as in most cases, your environment) has created.

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When you remember who and what you are you are free to keep playing and becoming and evolving from one level of growth to the next, continuously, all the days of your life.

How do you do this then? How do you break free from the old programming?

You have to discipline your mind and realize that you are the decider; you get to choose what program you want to install next, who you want to be and become and where you want to go from here.

Discipline and literally training your mind to follow your lead because if you’re like most people, your mind has been dragging you through life by the nose.

Be the decider in your life, take back your power and make your own choices.

Once you make a firm, clear, and definite decision about something; a goal, dream or desire that you intend to realize (and you’ve moved beyond wishing and hoping), then whatever you need in order to materialize it and make it real begins to get attracted to you.

But it can’t happen before you have made a definite decision about what you want. And whatever you decide, never ever allow money to be the deciding factor, it should never be considered when making a decision.

If you want it, you can have/do/be it, regardless of how your financial situation looks right now or whatever your circumstances are.

Believe this. Because the longer you hesitate and are indecisive, the longer you postpone your success and fulfillment in life.

Once a decision is made, things start to move to make that dream or goal real, so let it be only about what you want, not what you think you can have or do.

It doesn’t matter who you are or how much you have accomplished in your life, there’s always gonna be the next level, always.

You can be as rich you want, you can have a massively successful business and an awesome life, it doesn’t matter.

There’s always the next level and the next level is always better than the previous.

And there’s always more ways to give and share too because the bigger your life gets, the more good you can do too.

You are an INFINITE being, so keep growing, expanding and creating.

Never allow yourself to stagnate.

What happens when you make a firm decision about something:

Your current programming is going to fight you, you will feel resistance, hesitation, and moments of doubt where you go back and forth between what you want (the new) and what you think you can have (the old, or the “known”), ..

And so what do you do?

You dissect it and you get rid of it! And you state the new decision over and over again until it sticks (you override the old programming with the new).

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It’s the old self that you are now in the process of outgrowing that is objecting to your new growth, that’s all, it’s a conflict (or friction) between the old and new level of consciousness that you are now transitioning into.

It’s a barrier you have to push through each time you’re about to break through to something new and better than what was before.

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Sometimes the barrier is easily overcome and you get your breakthrough quickly, but sometimes it’s bigger and you have to really hammer your way through it.

It depends on the size of your goal or dream (seen through the eyes of your current level of consciousness) and your beliefs about being able to attain them.

As soon as you’re on the other side of your current belief, you will look back and smile, realizing how small you were thinking and how much you’ve evolved and elevated your life since then.

And it doesn’t have to take long at all!

The deeper your awareness, the easier it is, and the less self-aware you are, well, in most cases you never break the barrier at all but stay in the confinement of the level of consciousness that feels most comfortable and ‘safe’.

Your true dreams and desires never dies though, nothing can wipe them out entirely.

Most people have dreams, but very few actually do something to realize them, so the dream fades into the background of their lives, never to be actualized and enjoyed.

But it never dies – and it can come alive in you again very quickly.

It’s waiting there, deep within you, hoping to be acknowledged and seen.

And once you dare looking at it again and you allow yourself to feel the stirring in your soul it causes, the feeling of being scared and excited at the same time – Wow! That’s when you have to say YES to it!

So watch yourself, observe what happens within you when you’re about to break free from your old programming, and push through to the other side.

Become aware and learn to distinguish between the voices in your head and know that you are none of them; you are the one observing them.

Don’t identify with any of them, that’s the trap, don’t believe anything unless it serves you.

Belief is what our lives are constructed of, and the barrier is never money or the lack therefor, what other people think, outside authorities, or anything like that.

It’s always your beliefs. Your belief-system is the real barrier.

Don’t believe the voice that tells you you can’t do something, that it is too difficult, that you’re too old/young, or whatever it may be telling you.

When you identify with the voices, and most people do, that’s when it becomes a problem, and the only problem you can ever really have is if you lack awareness of who you really are.

The voices in your head is not you so don’t give them any power.

Don’t succumb to them like most people do by automatically and unconscious respond to it by thinking thoughts like:

“Yeah you’re right, who am I kidding, I can’t do that.”, and then add any excuse after that, such as (the most common of them all); “I don’t have the money to do that”, and then just stay put where you are because the voice in your head told you to do so.

Take charge of your mind!

Give it clearly defined goals and ignore (but become aware of) the objection and resistance from the old self that you are now outgrowing.

Allow yourself to grow and become the new you, knowing that you will be doing this all your life.

You will always be growing and evolving, so play this game of life and enjoy the journey of discovery and growth!

Stretch yourself and dream even bigger dreams, have even bigger goals and you will soon begin to tick off your dreams and goals as “done”, “done’”, and “done”, “livin’ it”, “doin’ it”, and you’ll always be asking “what’s next?” – because it’s fun! 😊

You can use belief positively, you can create a whole new you, a new life, whatever you fancy, if you just believe.

Life is made of beliefs, so choose your beliefs consciously.

You are free to believe whatever you want, so why not believe great things? Things that empower you to live full out.

Combat the voice that tries to limit you every time you’re about to break free to yet another level of greatness!

Identify with the Divine, not the voices in your head.

Remember your true nature. It’s limitless and unconditioned.

You can condition your mind, yourself, by choosing the beliefs you want to have, beliefs that support you in reaching your highest potential.

Decide what you’re gonna do and who you want to be and say “the new me is gonna be This, and this is how the new version of me thinks, believes and acts”.

Then you’re on the road to really living, truly becoming; then you begin to uncover your real potential; then you discover the miracle of your own consciousness, the power of your mind!

When you realize who and what you really are there’s nothing left but to enjoy your life and to continuously grow, expand and create.

         Master your mind and energy and live the life you really want to live.

  • Raise your vibration and overcome and get rid of limiting beliefs that are holding you back in life.
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  • Rewire your mind and energy and get in alignment with the flow of Life to live a rich and fulfilling existence.

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