Have a Dialogue With Your Higher Self
I have a wonderful technique that will astound you, and if you haven’t already done this kind of communication with God, I promise you it will bring insights to you and things will become clearer for you if you just give it a try.
It may sound simple but only after you have experienced it for yourself you will know how powerful it is.
The results will surprise you.
Grab pen and paper – as always with me 🙂 you know me by now.
Quietness, breathing, centering yourself.
When you are ready, begin to ask God, or your higher self, questions.
Whatever feels good to you to call the all-knowing power that resides within us all.
Ask the questions like you would have asked an awakened Christ, Buddha or any other in the crew of enlightened beings.
Ask specific questions that you are wondering about yourself, life, any challenges you might have etc.
Examples of questions could be:
- Why am I here?
- Why did I chose this lifetime?
- What is the great lesson that I might learn from this situation?
- What is the most important thing I need to know about my life right now?
- How else can I find fulfilling work?
- What am I not seeing that could help me if I did see it?
- How can I attract wonderful, loving friends into my life?
- Is this path that I’m on really the right one for me?
- Why do I feel so confused? (and how can I gain clarity?)
- What can I do differently?
- What is the one thing I can do right now that would propel me towards the manifestations of my dreams?
Etc etc etc – whatever is going on in your life right now; communicate it by writing down your questions and…. ANSWER them too…! Yes 🙂
Instead of writing down a bunch of questions, write the answers too right away, and just go with the flow of your own asking and answering.
This is a conversation with your higher self, God, which is You, and You know all the answers already.
If you don’t feel you can give an answer, pretend that you can, or just write whatever that comes up.
It might make sense to you afterwards.
The easiest way is to follow each question with an immediate answer and just get the flow going without stopping and judging or thinking too much of the answers that comes up.
What happens this way is that after a while a dialogue develops and suddenly you are having a real conversation with God! Sometimes you get questions back that makes you think and reexamine your question and so on.
Write and let the question flow naturally and you will be surprised at what comes up – and then follow the advice and answers you got, fully trusting it.
The world will feel right again, you will feel within your heart that the path is clear again, even if you don’t know exactly where the answers you got will lead or how it relates to whatever it is that you’re in the middle of in your life.
That will become apparent later on as with all the ways of the universe if we just allow ourselves to trust it.
~If you feel good inside, and it feels right to you, then follow the guidance 🙂

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I tried having a deep dialogue with my higher self once, and I am pretty sure she just rolled her eyes at me and took a nap. It is hard to listen to inner wisdom when inner anxiety is shouting over it with a megaphone. How do you actually tell the difference between your intuition and just your own wishful thinking?
Hi Daniel,
Once is not enough 😊
Or it could be, obviously, but if you didn’t feel a connection then keep at it and you will.
I have a lot of articles about connecting with your intuition/inner knowing/wisdom here:
https://mariaerving.com/?s=intuition
https://mariaerving.com/?s=inner+guidance
Just click on ‘next page’ for more.
Connecting with yourself internally, in however way you choose to do that, like for example what I shared in the article, or by prayer if that resonates with you, or just meditation, – it all helps when it comes to anxiety too as it brings and promotes inner peace.
You just have to keep trying even if it doesn’t give you anything instantly, and know that the voice of the ego is sometimes in the beginning even more loud.
Because when we ‘go within’, it’s threatening to it, so know that hearing that voice even louder (or feeling anxiety) is something many people experience in the beginning, so that’s something you just have to plough through.
Lastly; you asked “how do you know the difference between intuition and wishful thinking?”
– Why not follow both and see what happens? 😊
If the thing you ‘wishfully’ think about brings you joy and excitement, then why not go for it, allow those thoughts to show you what could be possible.
Also, I’m curious to hear; why do you call your ‘higher self’ a she, if you’re a guy (as your name is Daniel)?
If you create a separation like that, or even calling it your higher self (the article above is from 2010, so very old), that creates a sense of separation, as if you were trying to connect with something outside of yourself.
And that separation can then in turn block you from hearing it clearly, and the reasons for those blockages can be many (like beliefs and belief-systems, worthiness issues, and so on).
But even these things you can ask within about; like for example:
“How am I blocking myself from hearing ‘you’/my intuition?”, and “what can I do to hear my intuition better”?, and then listen to and pay attention to what comes up for you.
Hi 👋.. my question is that can our higher self answer us with a voice different from mine .. will it be a voice or just a knowing ?
Hi Samar,
People can hear both an audible voice, and also by ‘knowing’ and feeling intuitively, like you’re nudged from within. The audible voice might be more if the person is in some kind of danger or needs instant guidance about something.
There’s many ways one can hear it (and you can call it different things too), so however that is for you, as long as it’s helpful, then start developing your communication and connection with it 😊
Why are you asking? Have you heard a different voice than your own?