How To Handle Resistance From The World When You Want To Grow And Become More Your True Self: PART 3/7


How To Handle Resistance From The World When You Want To Grow And Become More Your True Self: PART 1/7

How To Handle Resistance From The World When You Want To Grow And Become More Your True Self: PART 2/7

Now is the time to move on, to leave that which no longer serves your greatest good, even if it is a friend. Don’t let anyone or anything bring you down or clutter your vision of the wonderful life you have intended for yourself. Choose to surround yourself with people who resonate with your inner being, people who have a loving and caring energy.

Some people bring you energy, and some take it away. Let your gut feeling guide you and always trust it. Let go of ill will; irritation, disappointment, frustration, annoyance, resentment, and grudges. Only the ego feels offended in any way, and the only one getting hurt by holding on to that feeling is you.

So let go of it right now! Give yourself the gift of forgiveness, and set yourself free.

Delight in the new direction in which you and those who resonate with you are going, and let others be. Even if you might have to walk alone in the beginning, you will in divine timing attract those who match your new energy vibration. Let your main focus be on you.

When your priority is feeling good, the energy vibration that you radiate will touch everyone close to you. Without trying to do anything, only having your attention on your own well being, you will radiate positive energy to the world around you and affect it in ways you cannot even begin to imagine.

Some times it happened to me that almost every person dropped off my frequency and I was alone. Some of them came back after years of separation, and when they did we were in better harmony with each other. This has to happen naturally. You cannot force a relationship into something you want it to be. You can’t fake chemistry.

When we part from people, often we do so because we need to grow more independent before we can get together again. Almost every time I have seen that in retrospect; I could not have seen it coming.

Actually, I had give up the relationships, let them go totally, thinking that I would never see those people again, and when they reentered my life we were all different people. When that happens it is wonderful.

People tend to think (without even knowing it) they are not worthy of good friends. They may mock you because you are clear about what you prefer and want, say you are too picky and you should accept all people. Well; I do accept other people, but that doesn’t mean that I want them all as friends.

You choose what kind of car you drive, where you want to live, the job you get, what food you eat. That doesn’t mean you don’t accept other cars, homes, jobs, or foods.

Sometimes it’s best not to begin with explanations; that will only lead to you defending yourself—a real waste of energy.

Most people are using their free will to suffer! We are free to create our reality.

Save yourself, and then use your influence to inspire others. Make your own well being number one priority. Be around positive minded people, keep your company holy and walk in the same direction.

If you feel a tiny bit of resistance or negativity from people you share your vision/philosophy with, don’t bother going there. They are not ready to hear what you have to say. Instead, deliberately attract into your life people who are interested in what you have to say and want to know more.

How? Tell yourself that there are hundreds, thousands, maybe even millions of people on this earth whom you can guide and teach your wisdom.

They WILL appear.

Stay tuned for PART 4 tomorrow! 🙂

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Life has a magical way of clicking into place once you get in alignment with it.

Once you’re freed from the past and blockages are released and dissolved, a sense of renewal and liberation comes over you and you’re able to move forward in life with a new sense of aliveness and inner joy, peace and confidence.

You have been an amazing addition to my life!

Thank you for all of the wonderful light, and love that you send out into the world. You are indeed an inspiration even though we are half way across the world – isn’t that wonderful! It is a privilege that is not taken lightly. Thank you Maria! 

Ruby Coleman Professional Musician and Actress, Memphis, Tennessee, USA


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