Self-love, Happiness is a byproduct of alignment

Ask These Questions if You Don’t Know How to Love Yourself

“I don’t know how to love myself!”

Powerful questions to ask yourself if you don’t know how to love yourself, or if you want to increase your sense of self-love:

If you knew how to love yourself, what would be the first thing you would do?

IF you had more self-worth and self-love, what are the things you would be doing that you’re not doing right now?

Project yourself to a future state where your self-worth and self-love is awesome.

What are the things you do when you live in that state? Use your imagination – Daydream!

How are you conducting yourself, and what choices are you making for yourself in this state where your self-love is amazing?

If your sense of self-worth and self-love were at 10, what are the things you would be doing that you’re not doing right now?

The answers should give you a clue about the changes you need to make in your life.

Also ask yourself:

How has having no self-worth and/or the lack of self-love held you back?

Get in touch with the pain, and that will help you stop wanting to do that to yourself anymore.


What is the most aligned and self-loving decision you could make next that will show you (and others) that you choose to love and value yourself?

Life is relatively short, so it helps to ponder this too:

If everything would fall away tomorrow, would you be happy with the life you lead?

Would you be happy with the choices you made?

Did it make you feel you did it all you could, that you inspired yourself?

Our behavior is the demonstration of what we believe about ourselves.

The source of everything is our state of consciousness, so lift yourself UP, turn ON the self-love, and make a choice today that shows that you love and value yourself.

Inspire and empower yourself by making a choice that is fully anchored in self-love, and see how Life supports you in your decision of choosing yourself.

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You deserve wonderful things for yourself, you deserve love, and you deserve happiness and fulfillment in your life. So wherever you feel drained, used, or taken advantage of: STOP leaking and giving away your invaluable energy and gifts towards those people. And wherever you feel appreciated, valued, and respected: START giving to those people and shift your focus completely towards them. Then your life will shift and you will open yourself up to a life of abundance and personal empowerment, fulfillment and happiness.

Grow your self-confidence and love yourself more

When we choose to be more self-loving, the challenges and obstacles on our path has no choice but to change their form because now we’re no longer allowing them to interfere with our flow. The moment we turn back to love, to compassion and friendliness towards ourselves, our whole perspective and experience changes towards that of encouragement and upliftment. Love does that, and we can choose love no matter what, and when we choose it, it has the power to change everything.
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Show self-respect and set healthy boundaries

Mary Oliver quote
Take the place of playing the lead role in your life. We get out of alignment with ourselves when we compare ourselves to others or when we try to meet other people’s expectations by listening to their opinions more than our own inner being. This is your one and only life and you should be playing the main character in it. You should be the one who defines and decides what you want, who you want to be, how you want to live and what your own definition of a life well lived is.
lost, found, or searching for yourself
Being your authentic self is the most powerful thing you can do in life. Having the courage to express yourself and fully appreciate your personality and uniqueness is what will bring positivity and happiness to your life. You’ve finally come home to yourself when you find your flow and align with the wholeness of who you really are. It all starts with self-love and respecting and valuing yourself. The more aligned back with yourself you are, the more magic you witness.

Happiness is a byproduct of Alignment

Lucille Ball quote
You deserve the very best that life has to offer.
As we grow and evolve, we realize we may need different things out of our relationships and those things needs to be honored and communicated.
This is an act of self-love. Don’t let anything that feels unsatisfying or unhealthy to continue without doing anything about it. We only have this One Life so make sure you make decisions that you can be happy with. You deserve it! We are meant to be happy, and being in alignment with ourselves brings that.
when your self-perception changes, your life changes too
The more you move into alignment with who you really are, the more magical life becomes. Live in the magical flow of your unique existence by stepping into your own innate power and self-confidence. Experiment with this today and watch the world transform before your eyes!

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