If it doesn’t align with you – reject it
Say no to what doesn’t align with you.
If you feel resistance and dread towards doing something, don’t force yourself to do it.
The resistance is about you not being true to yourself and that you’re doing or about to do something that is not in alignment with you or true about you.
Our purpose in life is to be ourselves, as fully as we can, and to follow our highest joy, or excitement, and to reject the rest.
Not because the other things are wrong or bad, but simply because they are not you, or for you.
Instead of forcing yourself to like something, don’t even think about it, leave that part to others to whom it resonates, let them enjoy it.
We’re all part of a whole and we all play our own individual parts in the tapestry of Life and our job is to just focus on what’s in alignment for us.
Just do what you are good at or that you actually want to develop and evolve in and leave the rest, even if there are others telling you that you have to do it in a certain way or that their way is the right way to do it.
Your only obligation is towards yourself, to be true to yourself.
Support only the expansion of who you really are and develop the natural interests, skills and talents you already have within you instead or trying to mold yourself into something you’re not.
Hone in on the essence of who you really are are and polish your unique gifts, make them more visible and grow in those areas instead.
Support who you really are by doing the things that you really want to do.
You can just focus on doing what you’re best at and where your true passion is and develop those things.
This is true with everything in life, whatever your path is.
Whatever it is that your unique thing or things are, do those things, focus on what you’re good at and what catches your interest and leave the rest – that way you’ll express the truest you there is to this world.
That’s where the most fun is for you too;
When let your soul come through in the ways that it’s meant to and not in the ways that maybe others or the world wants it to come through or how you ‘think’ it should look like.
“What’s truly calling me?” and “what would excite me the most?”, and then do what you would prefer and what’s speaks to you the most.
Don’t force yourself to like something. Life is too short for that kind of thing.
Align with the energies that are in alignment with your passions and interests instead and move from a place inside you where you’re in sync and harmony with your own unique preferences.
Of course, this doesn’t exclude the importance of being curious and trying new things in life. It’s more about sensing when something feels heavy and out of resonance with you versus ego resistance that you have to push through.
If you’re in Costa del Sol in Spain or Gibraltar area be sure to pick up the October 2019 edition of Society Marbella Magazine and read my article about meditation in it (page 40-41).