when your self-perception changes, your life changes too

The more YOU you are, the more magical life becomes

Move into alignment with who you really are and live in the magical flow of Life!

Today I invite you to be radically confident, even if you don’t feel particularly confident.

Dare to be sure of yourself. It’s not arrogance, it’s self-assurance, knowing that you are already whole.

Take it in to relax into your own being as if nothing else mattered and see what happens because the more in alignment you are with yourself, the more fabulous life becomes.

If people don’t like you then simply don’t care.

Try it! In whatever situtation today where you feel that someone don’t like you, think for yourself “I don’t care”.

Not in a defensive or aggressive way, but in a self-assured way, as if it was completely normal and obvious for you to not take anything in that has nothing to do with you.

It’s really not your problem if someone doesn’t like you and it has never been your problem. It’s not even about you.

Doing this is also a great way to increase self-awareness because as you do this you will discover and expose the part of you that is afraid of showing up authentically.

The part of us that we have been taught to believe is us but that actually is not who we are at all.

Humanity at large live in this lie so we have to unlearn the conditioning and basically begin ‘practicing’ being ourselves again and remove the fear of being judged etc. that stands between us and Truth. This is how we find back to ourselves again.

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The most important thing is that you like you.

That you are happy with your own choices and decisions, that you by the end of the day feel happy with yourself and what you’ve accomplished.

And it doesn’t have to be that you necessarily did something big, it’s really more about doing the things that are in alignment with you even if other people don’t agree with your choices or thoughts and opinions.

‘Accomplish’ being true to yourself today.

Be true to who you are and catch yourself when you’re trying to accomodate to other people or trying to be something or someone that you’re not in order to please them.

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

If the people in your life can’t like or love you for who you truly are, then why let them have a place in it? Why keep them close if they don’t accept you for who you are?

If you try and change yourself according to others you’re over-thinking your own existence and blocking the flow of your own life’s energy.

Work on accepting yourself instead of trying to get other people to accept you.

People have to like you or relate to you for who you are.

“I always say, ‘Worry about being respected, never worry about being liked. Because that’s the trap. That’s where people manipulate you. And so my kids, I did not teach my kids to be liked. I taught them to always live by their truth, and to always respect others and to always reach to be respected, and different people will respect different things, but at the end of the day, my kids have the confidence to be who they are. And that is all, as a parent, that Will and I can ask of them, because that is where their power and their strength will come from.” – Jada Pinkett-Smith

I invite you to have a clearer focus on being very true to who you are today and watch how empowering it is when you experience that your Soul is with you on this.

– You will get an inner response of validation and empowerment by doing this!

You can’t be someone else and there is no reason why you should bend like a pretzel in order to fit into anyones idea or opinion of who and what they think or want you to be.

Read this self-confidence creed out loud to yourself, feel it, live it, and see your life transform:

> Self-confidence Creed

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” – Marianne Williamson

One of the biggest things you can do for anyone, including yourself, is to care for and love yourself first.

That’s when all the other things in life falls into place as well:

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