How to Succeed with the Law of Attraction
How the Law of Attraction and Alignment work together
I know this is an old article (the reader is referring to THIS article), but I am going through awakening now, and I think I’ve read hundreds of articles about it online, and nothing has helped as much as reading your posts and explanations.
One thing that is always confusing to me is that it seems some spiritual teachers are focused solely on evolving spiritually and others focus solely on “Law of Attraction” (regardless of where a person is at in their evolution), and I’ve always had a hard time understanding how the two work together.
I’ve noticed in a lot of your articles, you bring the two together.
In this article, you describe how people will come and go in your life and your desires will change, and you have no idea where you will end up or what you will do. (Even though, other teachers will tell you to use Law of Attraction to keep anyone you want there).
Am I right in assuming that “Law of Attraction” is probably not working particularly well during this time because of the pain and turmoil of awakening, which is not really conducive to “alignment?”
I think the fear of being alone (forever) is absolutely the hardest part of awakening.
I have started practicing your advice that I read from another article.
When I start feeling these fears, I’ve started talking out loud and simply stating what I’m doing in the present moment–which keeps my ego from taking me back to the past or into fear about the future.
It’s amazing how much difference it makes! I only found your website a week ago, but I feel so much better already! Thank you so much!
You’re so very welcome, I’m glad you’ve found my writings helpful! 😊
Before I respond, here’s a few of my articles that immediately came up for me that can be helpful to you and where I share more about the harmony and balance that is needed in our evolution and awakening:
To only be evolving spiritually is a very one-sided life and not a complete expression of who you really are, so people who focus mostly on the spiritual aspect of life they live a partial life you could say.
In reality, what happens in the awakening process is that you become whole; a more complete expression of who you really are and where you embrace (and love) all aspects of yourself and your human experience.
Life is suppose to be beautiful, and it becomes beautiful when you wake up to and realize the Truth of who you really are.
Obviously it’s not healthy to go too much the other way either; to only be focusing on personal growth and doing all the “manifesting what you want” stuff etc, because that too makes a person imbalanced.
It’s not a successful and fulfilling path in the real sense if there’s no spiritual base, no real self-awareness, or depth to a person.
So being “too spiritual” is equally diminishing to the human experience as being “too” driven by the personal self, as both types of people are not in a healthy harmony with the fullness and wholeness of life.
Align with the God-power within you and all your desires becomes real.
Your Soul’s desires that is, and your own unique purpose for being here, call it whatever you want, but we each have a uniqueness to us that only we can share and express, and that is our destiny to fulfill.
And in that divine destiny, everything you need or require is included, it’s already on your path, it has already been taken care of and provided for you, and to live your highest destiny, all you have to do is this:
Follow your intuition and the guidance from the Universe.
Here’s a couple of articles that came to mind that can be helpful to you:
Alignment is about FREEDOM.
Trying to keep someone in your life for example as you mentioned in your comment, or if you’re trying to manifest something that you as the small self thinks you need, is doomed to fail, whereas when you live from your soul, then all the Right People, Right Things, and Right Circumstances will come to you and unfold before your eyes as you go.
You might like this article too: “The Future is about Vibration and Energy“
There’s also a divine perfection to the timing of things, and insisting on having things happen in our timeline is only creating resistance to the flow,
and sure, you might ‘get what you want’, but if it’s from the ego self (or the small, limited self), then it’s never fully satisfying, or there are some missing components to the whole picture (it feels incomplete), or it crumbles after a while and dies out anyway.
Many people just have the tendency to hold on to outworn conditions, relationships that was meant to end earlier, jobs that never was for them etc. because their small self is in charge of their life.
So let people be as free as you want to be. If people want to leave, let them, so that new people can come into your life that are more in alignment with who you have become.
Let the right people, things, places to live etc. that are meant for you show up by divine appointment, by synchronicity, by magic,
– You will feel the rightness of it, it will just click and come together way (way!) more beautifully than how the small self could ever have done it!
In the past I’ve manifested things from a place of the small self and got what I wanted but realized that it wasn’t complete or perfect as it is when you manifest with and from the God-power within you, and that’s how I learned that manifesting from a place of alignment is the most beautiful way to live your life.
Here’s a couple of articles that can be helpful to you:
Desires will change, yes, but it’s actually more about values and priorities shifting in a way.
When you come to experience and manifest the Divine Will and compare it to Your little will, it’s easy to let your life be all about the Divine Will.
You can still have the same vision and intention for your life and path (a direction of where you want to go) even if your desires change, but as you realize that the timing of things is out of your hands, you also learn to surrender the How of things,
Because you are never in charge of that part, you can never predict how things will manifest, so you let that part go completely.
When you’re going through the awakening process it might feel as if you’ll never come out of the aloneness-phase, but that’s just one of the many things the ego throws at you (the fear of being alone and lonely forever) to get you off path.
The world is changing rapidly right now, there’s an awakening taking place, and if you have been put somewhere to be alone, then see it as a positive thing, because it allows you to do the inner work that Life is calling you to do in solitude (and that’s a huge blessing, even if you don’t feel that right now).
The alone-time will eventually come to an end, and your main job right now is to do the evolutionary work that is necessary for the next phase (and era, really) of your life to begin.
Some people want to be alone too, here’s an article you might like;
About having dreams and desires:
The dreams and desires you have for your life has been given to you, so honor them and know that they are meant to manifest for you.
But there is no need to force anything, like with for example visualization, that I know many people are struggling with.
It’s way easier and more harmonious to let the divine ideas flash into your conscious mind when you’re simply relaxing and allowing yourself to be shown what is for you, and on your path.
You might receive downloads, mental images/visions, or flashes of inspiration, gut feelings, and ideas flowing into your mind etc., and that’s how you work in accordance (or alignment) with the divine plan for your life.
This is available to each and every one of us.
And you can still visualize if you want to, of course, just don’t strain with it if it feels like it’s not for you because all it does is that it creates resistance and only reinforces you being in lack of whatever it is that you want to manifest.
(Sometimes even daydreaming can be more powerful because that kind of imagining is lighthearted, enjoyable and more easy-flowing, as long as it’s done in the right vibration of actual desire/not ‘hope’.)
We can at any moment ask for guidance, feedback, signs, validation and so on too, but because people often talk themselves out of the things they receive in the guidance, they just get more and more stuck and stagnated in their life.
Nothing new is happening, and nothing is actually being materialized and realized (or “manifested”) because they are not responding to the cues from the Universe.
It’s our spiritual duty to have a fabulous life.
And we have to honor our humanness too and do what we can to fulfill our destiny and live our best life.
Alignment makes success and fulfillment in life certain.
It’s only fear, worry, self-doubt, lack of faith (or having faith in the wrong things/outcomes/perspectives), and mistrust in our own internal guidance system that keeps us from manifesting the life that we are meant to have.
Your energy is magnetic when you’re in alignment, things get speeded up when there’s no resistance anymore and when the restrictions has been lifted as you’ve let go of outdated limiting beliefs.
God, or Source, is meant to, and wants to, express itself through each and every one of us as happiness, freedom and abundance, and everything you want in life is on the path of following your intuition, so you can only win!
Everything has already been prepared for you and alignment puts you in receiving mode, – It’s only when we go against our intuition that we struggle and feel stuck.
LOA is always “working”.
Just like electricity is always working;
Electricity is working all the time regardless of what’s going on in people’s lives or in the world, it doesn’t adapt itself to fit into the consciousness of humanity; it can never diminish, it is what it is, just like Truth always is Truth, always has been and always will.
We just have to realize ut, or wake up to it, and when we do, that’s when life really begins and you become a conscious co-creator of it.
Until then you don’t have a choice but to have your life run as a program. (Life is consciousness expressed.)
The choice we all have is to be in tune with our intuition, that’s the doorway. That, and being willing to evolve and grow with the energy of your own life’s flow.
Then the need to impress others goes away, fear and worry evaporates, and you just realize how precious this One Life is that you have been given, so you want to make the most of it and live as the free and happy human being that you were born to be.
No time for less, and all you really have to be is yourself!
There is a benevolent force at work in your life and it wants you to be happy, successful and fulfilled, it wants you to enjoy life, to have peace of mind and divine order in all your affairs.
That’s what alignment IS.
So you’re already ‘manifesting’, we all are, but you might not be manifesting the life and reality that you actually want and deserve.
You might like this post as well: “You are already synchronized with an energy flow“
Here’s a couple of articles that you might like:
Only our beliefs and thoughts put a cap on the amazing things our inner power and being can do for us!
Alignment puts you on the road to living the life you want to live so align with the higher power that is trying to give you everything you could ever want instead of trying to attain it through the small, limited ego-self.
When you operate from a place of alignment, then what you are asking for will manifest as fast as your energy matches and aligns with it, that’s what the law of attraction is.
Alignment is the key to all manifestations in life, and here’s the thing again that I mentioned earlier;
We’re always aligned with something, always in the momentum of something, always in the process of manifesting something, but it might be things that you don’t really want or desire.
First step to realigning your life:
Use your free will to change the direction of your life by taking action on any hunches, ideas, and other nudges and guidance from your higher self and the universe. (Read more: Guidance and help is always available.)
Happiness, abundance, comfort, fulfillment, peace, joy, love and success belongs to you by divine right, so trust the flow of your life, because it wants to give you Everything.
Here’s a post that puts the whole law of attraction and alignment thing together for you in a few short sentences:
And lastly, here’s one more article that you might like and find helpful:
Hope this was helpful to you! 😊
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