Synchronicity and coincidences guides our lives forward
Coincidences, synchronicity, and other signs are the How’s of our evolutionary process.
Today I was inspired to invite you to pay extra attention to any synchronistic events or weird coincidents that may be occuring in your life.
Synchronicity etc. are all part of the evolutionary process that leads us forward in life; it’s the natural unfolding of things and the process that leads to progress and forward movement.
So the more we are open to see them, and the more we follow the signs by responding to them, the more forward momentum our lives also has.
Although, there are “negative synchronicities” too, so pay attention to those:
“Negative Synchronicity: Why it happens and what to do about it“
Here’s a few things to ponder to increase your awareness of synchronicity and coincidences in your life:
- Are you aware of any recurring themes in your life right now?
Close your eyes for a moment and ask this within and see what comes up for you. Give it some time and keep asking quietly within yourself, and then give space to listen.
- What was the most recent experience you had that had to do with a coincidental chain of events that made you go ‘hm’? 🤔
Give it some more thought by closing your eyes and then ask your inner guide to show you the chain of events again, all the way from the from beginning to the end.
Ask it to show you more details, more information and insight into what it was about. Be open to see images, words, or something else that you didn’t see before.
- Has someone recently given you a book that you still haven’t read?
Then go and get it and read it now, or at least scroll through it/open it up, to see if something catches your eye.
There might be some vital or helpful information there that can give you further guidance or insight into something that you have been asking and praying about.
It can also be a suggestion that came to you more than once that you didn’t act on, so think back on something like that too and see if something comes up.
Sometimes we’re not immediately ready to receive it (although on a deeper level we are, since it came to us), but then a couple of months later we suddenly are, so think about something that might have come to you but that you haven’t taken action on yet.
Other questions to ask to increase your awareness of synchronicity and coincidences:
- What was your most recent ‘funny coincident’?
What happened, and what was it about?
Were you able to become aware of it right when it happened, and if so, what unfolded from it?
To become more aware of these kinds of things makes it easier to see them more often (and then life becomes so much more magical and fun too!)
And that then in turn of course helps you see and become increasingly aware of both the larger and smaller patterns that are always at work in your life.
- What new patterns or themes seem to be emerging for you in your life?
What kind of coincidences have you seen today and the last week or so?
Is there anything new that seems to be communicated to you? Maybe a specific direction that seem to be calling on you?
Again, close your eyes and ask within. (Do this with all the questions, don’t just ask them by ‘thinking’ them.)
“Scan” your internal world to become aware of any themes and patterns, recurring signs etc. that are speaking to you right now that you may not have paid attention to until this moment.
Here’s some of my other articles about synchronicity and signs that can be helpful to you as well:
Another way to become aware of the greater tapestry of Life and how it unfolds in (absolutely perfect!) sequences is to take something from your life, for example the place where you currently live, or a relationship, your job, or something like that, and then look a bit deeper into the whole thing and how it came about.
Where you live:
Were there any particular coinsidents or signs that you received that lead you to move to where you now live?
Think back; were there any serendipitous happenings involved, or some kind of ‘luck’, or magic that happened? Or anything odd that happened that you can remember?
The invisible hands of the Divine are at work on so many levels in our lives and in ways we’re not aware of until we start to look deeper.
Your current job or career:
How did you get it? Who were the people involved?
What can you remember about it that you’re now able to see in a larger and deeper context?
Is there something that makes you realize (or suspect!) that ‘yeah, maybe there was a Divine spark about it’, in the way you got it, or how you started out on the new path.
Relationships:
And how about your new friend, partner, or the person you’re dating?
How did that happen? What lead you to meet each other? How did it all come together for you?
Do you see any patterns in how things and people come into your life?
How some people have come into your life just in the right moment for a very specific reason for example, or when you needed something, it just magically appeared.
Sometimes we also get premonitions in dreams or by other omens that lets us know what will happen next, or what is on its way to us.
It’s very interesting when you begin to look deeper into things like this, and when you do, it quickly becomes the way you actually live your life.
Synchronicity and other coincidences are an ongoing communication you have with Life.
There is a higher intelligence that has your best interest at heart and that always guides you towards that which is most right and appropriate for you.
Our job and purpose is to align with it, and listen to and trust its guidance.
Here’s more articles for you:
Enjoy the read! 😊
And remember; .. Pay attention! Especially today and in the next few days.
Things are coming your way Right Now as you’re reading this, so let yourself be marveled by how beautiful and synchronized everything is!
Hi. Love your post. So I have a question about synchronicity and sings. Ok, so the guy I really liked before, and using all loa and all, in the process I realize, no he is not for me I deserve better. But of course he is still on my mind, but not like before. This weekend when I disconnect to all chat platforms from my phone, also I took down the pictures, I went to one just to take off my Pic, and when I go there I saw that the guy I used to like and was manifested, install that app, even if I delete his number he was there. I wasn’t going to see if he did that AR anything, just some urge from inside to go on that app. And all I was planning to do was to delete my Pic. 🤣Can this be a sign or synchronicity?
Hi Sanja,
Yes, it was a synchronicity, but sometimes the ‘signs’ are not what we ‘think’ they are about too.
So it’s important to be aware of that and not create meaning to/around something from the perspective of the small self and what it wants things to mean.
So in your case I think that because you realized your value (that you deserve better), you were able to let him go, and with that detachment, he was magnetized/energetically pulled to you.
But,..! That doesn’t mean that you should welcome him into your life. It just means that because you were able to let go, he was manifested before you because you no longer wanted or needed him.
So when you know that’s why he was manifested into your reality, then it’s also easy to continue staying true to yourself by rejecting him (energetically), simply because you have now realized that you deserve better.
Does this make sense to you?
Here’s another article that can be helpful to you:
https://mariaerving.com/negative-synchronicity
Let me know if it resonates! 😊
Thank you for your answer. He didn’t actually send a text, he was just there even if I delete his number and all. Now I know, that I still hold my desire about marriage, that’s what I want, no more pasing relationship, but marriege. With everything, he was perfect and had all I wanted, but something inside of me said no, but I ignore it. Until now. Now I know I will keep my desire but I am replacing the person. And even when I think about him, I just feel that there is something that I don’t like about him, but when I go generel and think about my desire it’s so nice, I feel happy, sexy, attractive, full.
Can you just explain me this what you wrote to me:
“So in your case I think that because you realized your value (that you deserve better), you were able to let him go, and with that detachment, he was magnetized/energetically pulled to you.
So when you know that’s why he was manifested into your reality, then it’s also easy to continue staying true to yourself by rejecting him (energetically), simply because you have now realized that you deserve better.”
Thank you. 😊
Life begins to ‘work’ and you’ll naturally receive (without struggle) all the right things, people, and circumstances that you are meant to have and enjoy in life when you align with your inner truth and worth.
So what I meant was that oftentimes when we let go of something or someone, then they are suddenly drawn to us. It’s because we released our need (want) for it/them, so we created space for them to come into our life.
It can be a relationship, or about money, or a situation that we want to change for example.
When we stop trying and forcing things to happen, they suddenly come to us effortlessly, without us having to do anything.
Basically, when you’ve reached a point in your inner work where you don’t care anymore of you get it/the person/thing or not (you’re fine either way), then you suddenly manifest it/them effortlessly.
When you’re just happy with yourself and overall content – and most importantly; when you’re true to yourself, that’s when amazing things start to materialize before your eyes.
As you get in alignment with the truth within you where you can honestly say to yourself that you deserve better, then what happens is that basically all the things you previously tried hard to get (or really, really wanted), they will begin chasing you and flowing to you.
But now, as you’re in a higher level of consciousness (where you know your worth), you can say no to the things and people that no longer resonate with you, or have a place in your heart, or in your life even.
Now your standards are higher, so you will soon begin attracting and drawing into your life the people, things and situations that are right for you, as you have let go of the things/people/situations that no longer are for you.
Was this explanation helpful to you?
Yes. Thank you. I do now a lot of scripting, about my life and what I want. And feels nice. About what type of job I want, partner, house. Sometimes I visuals, but sumetomes when I drive I daydream and its nice feeling. 😊 But when I was doing that with him, sometimes it felt like no right for me.
Another question, is it normal to feel this, like I feel inside of me that he wants to reach me, but every time I said to my brain, no, we deserve better. It’s like this, I have a feeling where he wants to be with me, reach to me, but my inner self tells this, no I know how much I worth, and don’t want you. I know what I want. Is it possible that I am blocking him to get in touch with me and “sending” him message I don’t want you but more and better?
I m sorry, but it’s nice to tell someone about what I feel. 😊
Yes, you might be telepathically contacting him, letting him know that you’re not interested, and if so, that’s a good thing. I would suggest you just move on from him since you already know he’s not for you.
Bless him and his life, and continue focusing on, and putting your energy towards the things that excites you, as you’re already doing with the scripting etc. 😊
Then they can begin materialize themselves for you faster (as you let go of what is no longer for you).
Thank you for your time. Still sometimes like my brain doesn’t want to let go of him, but I forsing my brain and subconscious mind that it’s not good for us. And it’s like they are sad that he didn’t reach, not me. This can be true? Because I dont want him. And I think you right that telepaticly I sending him message not to reach.
And always say wish you best, good times but goodbye.
Yes, it’s just the old ‘you’ that is sad, or doesn’t want to let go, and it can take a bit of going back and forth between the old and the ‘new you’ before the you who you used to be get fully released from your consciousness.
Here’s an article that can help you understand this better:
https://mariaerving.com/regressing-back-to-ego-consciousness
So just keep moving with the new, and the old will soon fall away completely. 😊
Yes. Thank you. I can feel like sometimes it’s that. Brain doesn’t want to let go of something that was feeding him. But, I know it’s a good desision to let him go, and keep moving forward and live life I want and serves me right. My even wasn’t love, just a possibility what it could be, and I never even meet the real him. Like I said, he had everything that I want in a man, but he wasn’t the right person, and he’s baggage was so big, and with that I cannot deal, I thought I can but no. To hard. And now on my mind I said, wish you best, we have great time, but no, you cannot live free in my head, and I deserve better. And I belive that with that way I send him a telepatic message, to not reach to me, because I have feeling he wants, but I block him that way. How long it will last this old me and new me, when I am finally free from that energy? To not giving him that energy?
It depends on your level of self-awareness and your ability to see what part of you it is that is holding on etc.
I have a powerful energy clearing exercise that I’ve shared on my membership site that you can use too to clear yourself from his energy (even if it’s not ‘negative’):
https://mariaerving.com/clear-yucky-bad-negative-energies (It’s for members only though, so you would need to become a member to access it.)
Other than that just keep doing you and move forwards with your life and the old will just fade more and more into the background until it no longer is part of your consciousness.
It’s my brain. Like check if he sends you text, and it’s always I said stop, don’t do that. We need to move forward. I think it’s the brain, and I am moving foward and just want that he leaves my mind and have peace. Because this wating and hoping lasts to long. And that made me tired, and nervous, obsessed, unhappy. And then I realise I want better, more and know how much I worth.
Keep telling yourself that and you’ll be out of it in no time Sanja 😊
Sometimes the mind is like a child and then you have to be the parent and take charge, which you are doing, so that’s great. 👍🏻
Thank you Maria for everything. So helpful. And I know that my life will be great, with beautiful husband, job, home. I am looking into the beautiful future, and be home. Thank you. And I will do everything to return my energy to me. And be the best version of myself to the world. Thank you once again
You’re so very welcome Sanja, glad I could help. 😊