How to ACTUALLY fit into the world

You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Live in Alignment

Alignment doesn’t mean that you have to be perfect. Sometimes people think that living in alignment means that you have to be a pristine, flawless, perfect “spiritual” human being. That’s not true at all; that is actually just another limiting belief-system to realize and see through. The limited self, or the ego, always tells us that we’re not enough the way we are, or that we’re not doing enough, or that we’re going to lose something or not get something unless we mold ourselves to something else than who we really are. Those kinds of thoughts don’t belong to you – See through them and you’ll be free!

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The ONE question that will help you snap out of any anxious and fearful thoughts

There’s a huge difference in thinking and feeling vs knowing. Feelings come from thinking, they are the result of what we think and believe, so they are not anchored in Truth. Since they are changeable they can’t be reliable, but what is always reliable is what you know. What you know deep down to be true and that has nothing to do with your feelings and thinking. The fear-thoughts in your head is not yours, it’s just a program in your mind. Ask yourself this question any time you feel scared, worried or stressed out and you will snap back into alignment again in an instant!

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What to do if you’re afraid of making the wrong decision (Part 2/2)

Stagnancy kills, and inaction stalls our progress in life. In my previous article I wrote about how to make decisions and in this article I’ll address the fear of making the wrong decisions and what to do. Postponing our intuitive nudges and overthinking leads to stagnation and stuckness where we end up drifting aimlessly through life with not much excitement at all, and without purpose and meaning. Sometimes we’re at a crossroads too, but by not making some kind of decision, we just keep ourselves stuck in one place, and then wondering why nothing ever happens or moves.

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What To Do While In the Spiritual Waiting Room (and what not to do)

Spiritual waiting room – What to do when “waiting on God”. This phase can also be called the spiritual Void, which is a very quiet phase in the process of manifestation and creation. In this phase nothing seems to happen, you are seeing no signs at all of progress, and many times you are even experiencing going backwards, or regressing, rather than progressing. In this three part article series I will share all the ins and outs about this particular process so that you can get out of it quicker to the other side of whatever it is that you’re in the midst of right now and that is keeping you stuck and stagnated.

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Use Contrast to Help You Gain Clarity and Find New Direction

Life is always for us, and the situations and the people we meet in our life are there to help us select what we would prefer to have and experience instead. Contrast helps us see what we really want so that we can decide and select between what we want and what we don’t want. So see everything that you’re experiencing, even if it’s ‘negative’, as communication from Life, pointing you towards a better path, a path that is more in alignment with you.

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