When Someone Shows You Who They Are, Believe Them the First Time - Maya Angelou

When Someone Shows You Who They Are, Believe Them the First Time

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. People know themselves much better than you do. That’s why it’s important to stop expecting them to be something other than who they are.” — Maya Angelou. Once people have told you, or showed you who they are and you don’t leave, they are free to be as bad as they warned you they would be, so trust the red flags. Don’t second guess yourself —This is YOUR life, so If you see red flags or if you notice something ‘weird’ or off, – Don’t go there. Trust yourself and leave. See it as your cue to exit.

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Struggling With Fear of Losing My Looks

“Hi Maria, Lately I’ve been struggling to cope with the fact that I am ageing physically and I live in fear of losing my looks. Do you have any advice to those of us who are struggling with these fears?”. Ok, so yes, we gain weight and our face and neck are beginning to sag and our eyelids might be more droopy, we get grey hairs and what not, but none of that matters in the big scheme of things; it’s such an incredible gift that we’re here, that we get to have this One Life that we’ve been given, so it’s so important to be happy and to enjoy your life, no matter what stage you’re at, while you can!

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Give yourself the things you seek and want from the world and other people

For as long as you’re dependent on the world, things, and other people to make you feel happy, safe, and at peace, you’re never going to attain the real sense of inner peace, or true happiness, and the kind of internal safety and security that money can never buy. When you yourself can meet your own needs (and you can), you will become free as the unbounded soul that you were born to be. Then it no longer matters what the world does or how other people see you or what they think of you.

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Giving too much in relationships

“I read your article about Aloneness and after wondering all my life of 70 years, I feel that I seem to have found an answer to why I don’t connect or turn everyone away from becoming friends, even family members. I have always felt at odds with this part of my life. What could my soul be holding on to that turns people away from me and what changes do I need to make within myself to overcome it?”

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The more YOU you are, the more magical life becomes

The more you move into alignment with who you really are, the more magical life becomes. Today I invite you to live in the magical flow of your unique existence by stepping into your own innate power and self-confidence. Experiment with this today and watch the world transform before your eyes!

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