Because of the fact that there is always only the present moment, and all the regrets and worries are all in our minds. Just let them go and be friends with Now.

The opportunities will never stop coming our way, so cast out the limiting beliefs you might have about your “boat already have been shipped” and all that nonsense.

There will always bee another one, many new opportunities, and they will be forever coming your way.

Sometimes, people tell me that it’s too late for them to do or experience something that they once thought of as a dream they wished to come true, because once someone came along and gave them something they thought of as an opportunity and they decided to pass for some reason and then they go about their lives and think that that was it, and because they didn’t take it, they don’t get anymore chances or opportunities.

What in fact happened was, that someone came along, presented this what they called an opportunity, and we didn’t feel it resonated with us, we might have felt that something was a bit off about the whole things so we said thank you but no thanks. What really happened was that we in fact trusted out gut feeling and made a decision based on our intuitions, and oftentimes we are totally unaware of the awesome thing that just happened. We trusted our selves!

But often, sadly we think that that was the only opportunity there was for us in this lifetime, and we shut ourselves out of the flow of opportunities. They are still coming towards us but we don’t see them. Especially if this person who came along keeps pitching for us how incredible this opportunity is and it is a a once in a life time thing. And yeah.., about that. There are no such things. It really is an everlasting flow going on and you pick the once that feels right to you and say no to all other things.

That’s really all there is to it. Go with what feels right and leave the rest – it might be right for someone else, but it doesn’t mean it’s the right thing for everyone.

—What if…..

All the what ifs we state are only holding us back.

-“What if that really was the opportunity of a life time and I just ignored it?”

And even worse when that particular opportunity worked very well for someone else and they get really rich. We work ourselves up to the extent that sometimes people even feel like they don’t want to live anymore. But let me tell you something. All the success you see other people having around you are clues and signs of your own success and if you could just celebrate with them you would have your own in no time!

Jealousy or envy only keeps you away from what you want and dream of, so let it go. Let go of self pity and stop thinking that good things only happens to others.

If you can be totally honest with yourself and examine exactly why you did turn that “once in a life time opportunity” down and find that you did it because it didn’t feel right to you, then you can be absolutely sure that it wasn’t right for you. You have to trust that, and then look for other opportunities instead of beating yourself up.

If you find that you said no to it because you were afraid of the process, afraid because you didn’t know how to do it, how to proceed or even how to afford it, then you have to work on your trust in yourself and open your eyes to other opportunities and be more bold in the future, because they are there for you, always. Either way, stop beating yourself up for the choice you have made in the past! When the next opportunity is in sight, dare to step out of your comfort zone and just seize it. If you’re totally honest with yourself, you know if you’re holding yourself back or if it is your intuition telling you that something is not right for you.

Sometimes something is not right for us at one time, and then later on it will be. Sometimes we jump into things without thinking only to find out later that it was completely wrong for us. Either way, it was all right for us at that particular moment in time, and there is a lesson to be learned. Maybe we needed that jump just so we could learn to check with our inner being more often in the future.

Time is always right for us, even when we think it was wrong. We all have had times in our lives when we have done something and years later we cringe by the thought of us doing that. But back then we did the best we could, with the self knowledge we had, just like we do today. Hopefully we know better today, and make better choices for ourself. We will always evolve and what we think today will be very different of how and what we think about in ten years from now. However we think about it, it was the right thing for us at that time in our life, even if we think it would be wrong today. Just don’t linger in the past, and get back into this moment and make a new choice now, and now, and now.

And again now 🙂 Make it count!