Trust the new that is unfolding

Unleash the power of letting go (Surrender to the flow of Life)

Surrendering and letting go into alignment is the key to your freedom.

I can’t tell you how powerful this is, and right now, what is happening in the world, and in our individual lives A HUGE shift is taking place, and from this moment on, alignment is what will be the way forward.

Those who try to hold on to control will struggle and suffer, but if you yield to the organic and natural unfolding of your life you’re able to stay calm and confident despite the turmoil that is going on around in the world and in your personal life.

The old ways are dying and falling away and the control is out of our hands.

All we can do is to let it happen, and by doing that we welcome in the new that is currently being born.

What this means for you personally I don’t know, but it can be about people falling away from your life, marriages falling apart, people losing their jobs, income sources drying out, and so on.

Whatever it is that is trying to leave your life Let it.

Let it leave, because something better and more aligned is trying to come into your life but it can’t come before you let the old go.

In this process of letting the old die and fall away there might be a lot of tears Cry them out.

Don’t distract yourself with ‘doing’, but instead sit with yourself and whatever it is that you’re feeling. (Or get help to release the old)

Be with the pain, but in a compassionate, self-loving way.

Let the feelings be seen and felt so that they can be released.

There’s a lot of uncertainty at the moment, and the small self’s reaction to the unknown is always to grasp for control, but right now no matter how much you try to control things, you won’t be able to.

Release yourself from the burden of trying to figure things out.

Surrender to the flow of Life, and let the higher and deeper aspect of yourself be in charge and direct your ways.

Can you feel the relief in that?

There’s a lot of egoic patterns that are being released at the moment, so much surrendering going on, and purging of the old.

Let yourself be lead and remain quiet until a new direction is shown.

You don’t have to search for the next step, it will be shown when you let go of the need to know the next step.

I know, it can be really difficult! Taking steps and ‘doing’ is easy; it’s the standing still that is hard.

We’re so conditioned to live with pressure and stress and always forcing our way forwards, but the only way forward now is by letting go of the steering wheel.

Something greater than our small ego’s is in charge, and the calling for all of us, both globally and individually, is to give our lives over to That.

In this process you might go through a chemicalization process, which can be very painful and emotionally intense.

If you are in some kind of cleansing and purging process, then be committed to Truth like you’ve never been before – You have to!

You can’t let the old life drag you back (or down!).

Do not let the old thought-patterns get hold of you, because if you do, they will again come to own you.

You have to not let yourself be caught up in the feelings and beliefs of the conditioned self, but instead keep affirming the Truth of your life and who you really are.

Actively and consciously refrain from reacting to your thoughts and instead yield to Truth. Over and over again if you have to.

Here’s an old post that came to mind that will help you stay on course: “Truth Mantra”.

Life from now on will be about connection, about LOVE, Truth, alignment, and everything that is not resonating with this new vibration will fall away whether we like it or not.

It doesn’t have to be ‘bad’ things, it can also be about things/people/places that are just not aligning with you anymore.

It might be something in your life that has come to a natural end, a completion of a cycle if you will, or something you might be hoping will get better while deep down you know it never will.

It can be that it’s just not serving you anymore or that you have organically outgrown away from it but are still trying to keep it alive for some reason and it’s just not good for you anymore.

Questions that you can ask yourself:

  • “What is trying to leave, or die, in my life, or in me?”
  • “What is trying to come into my life?”
  • “What wants to happen, awaken, or be born, in me, and in my life?”

If we tune within, the answers will come.

Even if it’s just an incling, a small inner ‘knowing’, then begin there.

Have the courage to follow That.

There’s a quiet knowing within you that is pointing the way to the new and you can ask this simple question to tune into the Truth within you:

“What is my ‘quiet knowing’?”, and then something will come to your awareness.

Here’s a link to other articles with questions you can ask yourself that will be helpful to you:


When we stop trying to figure things out and instead take some time to pray/communicate, be still, and listen to silence, answers will come.

Solutions will come, but for as long as you desperately seek and search for them them, the new awareness and insights you need only gets blocked.

If worry or anxiety comes up, stay with yourself, and surrender even more deeply into your true nature.

It’s really important that you don’t shun away from the transformational process right now, even if it’s incredibly intense.

I promise you that once you’re out on the other side of it, you will be in a much better place a much higher place within yourself, and that’s the place from which your new life will begin to expand and unfold.

This is when magic starts to happen;

Beautiful synchronicity, new people coming into your life that you feel a connection with, and events unfolding that leaves you in complete awe and wonder.

Seemingly impossible situations and circumstances get miraculously resolved and you know it’s by the hands of something that is way greater than your small self.

Call it God, higher self, the Universe, divine, whatever you want, but you know it’s there – Or Here, right now.

It’s always with you, but we block its involvement in our life when we think and believe that life is all up to us, that we alone have to figure everything out, and that life challenges are all on our shoulders.

When we live with this belief – and forget who we are – and lose our connection – Life becomes full of anxiety, stress and tension.

But we are meant to experience life in a lighthearted way – And we can live from a place of connection, confidence in our Self, and being anchored in Truth, even in the midst of life’s challenges.

So hold on to nothing from the past let whatever wants to leave, leave.

Breathe through the changes, feel the pain, cry the tears, let the changes that needs to and wants to happen, happen.

Here’s a link to some articles that can be helpful to you:


Allowing yourself to feel, and to release, and to surrender, – creates space for magic to happen.

Let LOVE be in charge.

When you let go into the energy of love, your whole being relaxes, and you can breathe again, or life can again breathe through you.

Be fully present with whatever is happening, and with yourself, but don’t let anything throw you off course – You can have turmoil in your life, while at the same time be anchored in peace.

And when pangs of fear or anxiety comes up (as they will for a while), sit with yourself through it.

Let your self-compassion grow, and never lose sight if who you deep down know yourself to be, no matter what the small self is screaming at you in your head.

You’re gonna be alright, everything will be okay. Just stay connected and aligned and all will be well with you.

And as life unfolds before you, pay attention to the messages of the events of the day, to meetings that has a feeling of destiny to them, and other signs and communication from the universe that lets you know that there is a guiding principle in your life that is always available to you if you let it be involved in your life.

Dare to follow your soul, your curiosity, and stay open – resist nothing.

Stay aware, and follow your inner guidance, that’s the only ’step’ to follow; Your Heart as it is leading you into a new world that is awaiting you.

It will have a sense of obviousness to it, you will just ‘know’ that it’s for you in some way or form.

Like breadcrumbs that are laid out before you specifically for you to follow.

Our natural state of mind is calmness, but the calmness gets disturbed when we believe our thoughts and the stories in our heads.

We simply just forget who we are and that’s when the suffering begins.

Here’s a few articles that can be helpful to you:


Trust that the next steps, whatever it is that you need next, will present themself as you let go and surrender your ego, your will, and your willfulness.

Surrender the need to know what to do next.

Simply respond to the Truth as it communicates to you in the moment and stay in the flow.

Live from Here and Now.

Be receptive. Open. Allowing.

And then WAIT.

Wait for the magic.

Something will happen. (And it’s none of your doing!)

And when it does, when something is presented to you; you will know it’s in alignment with your highest destiny because it will on a very fundamental level feel both right, good, and true – even if the details around it are still unclear.

Dare to trust and go with it – follow the flow of it, and see what Life brings you next.

Until then, live in the uncertainty, even if it’s really uncomfortable.

Remain in the unknown until that ‘something’ opens up, and then when the way is shown, or opens up for you then boldly walk into the new.

Stay aligned, connected and in the energy of LOVE – Don’t hold anything back – and allow the birthing of the new that wants to happen in you, and in your life, happen.

If you’re in Costa del Sol in Spain or Gibraltar area be sure to pick up the July 2020 edition of Society Marbella Magazine.

My latest article in it is about aligning yourself back into the flow of Life.

Jennifer Aniston on the cover of Society Marbella Magazine, July 2020.
Jennifer Aniston on the cover of Society Marbella Magazine, July 2020.
Society Marbella Magazine, Article by Maria Erving, July 2020.
Society Marbella Magazine, Article by Maria Erving, July 2020.
Society Marbella Magazine, Article by Maria Erving, "Align yourself with the flow of Life", July 2020.
“Align yourself back into the flow of Life” by Maria Erving

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