What You Avoid In Life Will Come Back Later

Letting go of situations or people just because they “feel bad” to be around for example is spiritually immature and will not lead to true freedom.

If you let go of someone without having done the inner work every moment of life teaches and gives to us, you will just keep dragging that same old energy back to your life until you have dealt with it.

It’s just going to be some other person, a similar situation – only in a slightly different setting.

But it will come back.

Everything that we avoid will come back until we look at it and gain the wisdom it had for us to get and understand.

Are you in denial of something?

Is there something (a habit perhaps) that you know you need to let go of, but haven’t yet?

Maybe the time is now.

Are you pretending all is well, when it’s not? 

Maybe there’s a situation you know no longer will work, but you have been hoping that maybe.. maybe one day he/she will come to his/her senses and see you, love you, be kind to you, respect you..?

See a pattern that keeps repeating itself in your life?

It will not go away by itself, they rarely do, as every situation is a learning process.

˙oƃ ןןɐ ɯǝɥʇ ʇǝן ؛ʎןןɐuıɟ puɐ ‘ʇɟıƃ ǝɥʇ puıɟ ‘sɟǝıןǝq puɐ sǝɹnʇɔnɹʇs ʇɥƃnoɥʇ ɹnoʎ ǝʇɐƃıʇsǝʌuı ‘punoɹɐ ƃuıʞuıɥʇ ɹnoʎ uɹnʇ

I don’t mean that you should replace one belief system for another, but to really get to the core of them to find out what caused your suffering – and then let them go. Period.

No need to build up new beliefs, or even have new opinions of the ‘new situations’, just relinquish the programming that’s like a broken record that has been running your life.

We need to be completely sincere and honest with ourselves when we investigate our thoughts and emotions, where they come from and how we keep repeating the same old stuff over and over again before we can transcend them.

No need to explain or tell people about your personal changes and transformation.

Believe me – they will notice it without any explanations, and if the don’t like it, then that will be something they have to take responsibility for themselves.

Some will be uncomfortable with your new choices but that’s not your problem.

You need to take care of Numero Uno: YOU, and not concern yourself with other peoples reactions.

But to just leave people or situations behind without looking closely at what’s going on on a deeper level is the same as avoiding Life.

To run from situations just because they “feel bad” will not lead to anything but a similar person or situation coming into your life later on.

And with greater “force” – life works that way. Remember this Oprah Quote?

In little whispers… your intuition is telling you something. Did you not pay attention? The universe will speak to you a little louder – with a little tap on the shoulder. Then you get hit in the head by a “brick”. Still not paying attention? A brick falls on you. Still not hearing it? Then you experience a full-blown earthquake”. ~Oprah Winfrey

We have to face what’s happening.

Only then can we become truly free.

If this post resonated with you; I’ll invite you to take some serious alone-time and inquire into what’s really going on in your life:

Pay Attention to Your Soul With NO Distraction if You Want Peace:


Stop avoiding silence and contemplation. Become aware of the voice in your mind that always seem to find excuses to not meditate:


Eight powerful questions to ask yourself to get ‘un-stuck’:


And then, on Monday when the Full Moon eclipse is; you will have a more clear knowing and understanding of what you want to keep in your life, and what/who needs to go.

Maybe you’ll find that it’s time to let go and move on:


Full Moons are great for completions and endings, and releasing the old to make room for the new:


Lastly, I want to share this Full Moon Meditation to end this process on a positive and loving note:




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