Why I’m not against anything

I’m not against war, crime, drugs, animal abuse, or anything else!

You may go “whoa” right now, but read on.

You know I teach about energy vibrations, right? Yes, so let me explain what I mean by not being against anything.

Just to take Facebook as an example, as Facebook overflows with all kinds of groups and pages (which is all good, understand me right:-), and something I notice sometimes is that there are all kinds of groups where people are against something; like “stop this or that”-group, and although I have mostly positive FB-friends (obviously I don’t know them all personally) I do get these kinds of page/like-requests too, and I always push the ‘ignore’-button right away, because I know that there is no exclusion in the universe, so it makes no sense to me at all to support those kinds of groups, no matter how noble their higher purpose is, because being against something only gives you more to be against!

The universe is all-inclusive, so when we say “no” to something; “I don’t want that”, we are energetically saying “Yes, give that thing to me that I don’t want” because we are having our attention on the unwanted.

We can either have our focus on that which we want, or the opposite of that, never both at the same time, and whatever we focus on, we attract into our life. The law of attraction is like a magnifying glass amplifying whatever we are having our attention on.

The energy vibe can be felt easily; feel the shift between:

  • I’m against war (agitated, angry, fearful energy)
  • I’m for peace (loving and caring energy)

Feel the difference? We can’t possibly think about peace and feel agitated and fearful when we do, and we cannot think about war and feel loving and caring at the same time. Remember; the feeling, the emotion is what creates the energy vibe, and the vibe is the magnet that attracts similar vibes. And so doesn’t it feel better to be for peace?

So whatever you are against, or want to be stopped; look at what it is that you want instead of that which is horrible and make a statement about that instead. That way you are contributing to the solution and the focus on the problem is taken away, thus the attraction to the unwanted also stops; it’s now re-directed to the wanted instead and that is now manifesting. That which you do want.

To help you find that which you do want you can ask yourself the question ‘why’ and state it in a positive way;

“why do I want wars to stop? Because I want people to live freely and in peace”.

“why do I want crime to stop?” Because I want to feel safe and secure” etc.

The ‘why’ always reveals the reason behind everything, and by always looking for the positive aspect of the wanted we can easily find new words that we can channel through our being and create the change we crave.

So, I’m FOR friendly neighborhoods, self-love, perfect mental health, respect for all living creatures and so on 🙂

Pushing against something only gives us more to push against – and by a slightly different use of words we can shift the whole attraction on an energetic level and create something better for ourselves and the world 🙂

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You have been an amazing addition to my life!

Thank you for all of the wonderful light, and love that you send out into the world. You are indeed an inspiration even though we are half way across the world – isn’t that wonderful! It is a privilege that is not taken lightly. Thank you Maria! 

Ruby Coleman Professional Musician and Actress, Memphis, Tennessee, USA


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