mental health bypassing

How do we distinguish between truly letting go and bypassing?

“Hi Maria! A big topic that’s been coming up is letting go. It’s something that is mentioned in a lot of different teachings in general, and even psychology etc. How do we distinguish between truly letting go and bypassing? I’m scared of ignoring my stuff or brushing it under the carpet! I’ve struggled with letting go and I analyze things very deeply, journal about it, ponder about it, and no matter how satisfactory a conclusion I come to in my mind about a given issue, it never..” Read my reply in this article.

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Use Contrast to Help You Gain Clarity and Find New Direction

Life is always for us, and the situations and the people we meet in our life are there to help us select what we would prefer to have and experience instead. Contrast helps us see what we really want so that we can decide and select between what we want and what we don’t want. So see everything that you’re experiencing, even if it’s ‘negative’, as communication from Life, pointing you towards a better path, a path that is more in alignment with you.

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How do I stop fantasizing about someone?

“Hi Maria, Firstly, thank you so much for everything you do here. You have helped me more than anyone else on the internet on my spiritual unfolding and I am very grateful for it. The latest obstacle I’ve encountered in my journey is that I’ve fallen in love with someone I barely know and who lives on the other side of the world with a partner. I’ve never loved anyone this much before, and so much of my time is spent in romantic fantasies about her, envisaging our future life together, all the truth and beauty that this appears to promise. I can feel my inner self telling me that it..”

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You Get It When You Stop Wanting it

Learning to love and rely only on the cause (Source), and not the effect (material/physical manifestations) is one of the biggest things we can learn in life and which brings total freedom. Life will give you things only once you’ve learned to live without them, so it’s about learning to not base your happiness, security and freedom on anything external. When you have genuinely come to a place within yourself where you feel perfectly fine with or without the thing you desire, that’s when you’re ready to receive it and that’s when it can finally make its way to you and be manifested into your reality.

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How to manifest new LOVE into your life

“I’ve been yearning for a relationship for over 6 years now (since my awakening began), and during these years I had two men (at different times) that both loved me, but both had commitment issues, so even though they were “sort of” in my life over the years, at the end of the day I was alone. I remember you once said something along the lines of “Life will not put a desire in your heart if it does not want the desire fulfilled”. That really stuck with me, but how..” » Log in to read the rest. In this long article I share about how to align with and call in True Love: How to create a consciousness shift that puts you in a higher vibration that will attract a different type of partner into your life.

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